Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Words aren't enough.

I've always been a big fan of the written word. I've always felt there is such power in being able to take others to a place that may only exist inside of you, and help them experience it.

But then there are times like this when words seem to trivialize everything. They aren't enough. There aren't any words big enough or powerful enough to convey all the emotions that come with losing someone at a time that seems all too soon. We weren't done with him. There was so much more life we wanted to live with him.

Dan Thompson taught the people of our church to be genuine. He had little tolerance for a church environment where people had to put on a happy face and act like they had it all together. And he had even less tolerance for a church environment that was harsh and judgmental.

But he loved mercy. He loved grace. He loved being able to accept people for who they are, embracing both the good and the bad, and helping them along their journey no matter what point they may find themselves at.

He taught us to love God with all of our hearts. And he taught us to really, genuinely, deeply love each other. To lay our lives down for each other. And the last few years were spent teaching us to take that love outside the church. Don't just be nice to people .... really care about them. Really love them. And that is how they will see the heart of Jesus.

There is numbness. There are tears. There is laughter and memories. Most of all, there will be friendship. Hugging, crying, grieving. There may not be any words. But there will be people laying down their lives to help each other cope.

Because that's how Dan Thompson taught us to live.

7 comments:

Felicity said...

So true. All of it.

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Anonymous said...

i agree i love the written word. i believe that the world is nothing without words to discribe it.

JLTan said...

We talked about forgiveness at Bible study last night. We concluded that forgiveness is not pretending that everything is okay. Forgiveness is also not excusing the other party as though it was no problem. Forgiveness is acknowledging all the offence, and getting over it.

Words are not enough, as you said. There is grace, emotion, and a willingness to walk God's way that goes with the words.

Anonymous said...

Hello. Its good to see that you are at least thinking about these things;ie, "God's will" etc.
Really, i'm sixty and just started to think of others first, and what is God's will and what is my will run riot!
nice blog, cheers

Ristinw said...

you have a nice blog! Thanks for the good vibes u create with your words :-)