tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-92069500421230453782024-03-05T02:27:20.277-08:00Strengthened by wordsTracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.comBlogger188125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-20627578775656716372013-07-18T13:11:00.000-07:002013-07-18T13:11:26.595-07:00PerspectiveI haven't blogged for a long, long time. Maybe because it's so easy to just write what I'm thinking on Facebook at any given time. Or maybe I just haven't had anything to say. (But seriously, when does that ever happen?) Anyway, I've been thinking a lot about perspective lately and just wanted to get some thoughts down in hopes that it would help me dig a little deeper, maybe even gain a little MORE perspective.<br />
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I don't know if it's because I'm in my fifties now, or if it's because of the things God has been doing in our lives over the past 2-3 years. Maybe both. But I find myself changing perspective. God revealed Himself to me in a really powerful way when I was 21 years old, and it really did change my life forever. Not that I quit making mistakes (sometimes big ones). Not that I had everything (or anything) figured out. I just knew that He loved me, and I knew He was my hope. It was something to hold on to that I had never had before. And it meant everything to me.<br />
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But I think I spent the next almost 30 years trying to figure out how to live in the reality of His presence at the same time I lived in the reality of this world. They never seemed to match up. And from everything I ever read in scripture, they aren't supposed to.<br />
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I think it was three years ago, I finally read through the ENTIRE Bible without skipping anything. (Okay... true confession... I may have "skimmed" some of Leviticus.) This was the very beginning of my love for the Old Testament. I had always thought God seemed so mean and vindictive in the Old Testament. But for the first time, as I read through story after story, I was completely captivated by the great love He had for His people. Over and over and over again, his message was, "Believe that I am your God. Put all your trust in Me. I will take care of you. There is nothing I won't do for you."<br />
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Yet over and over and over again, His people turned away from Him. The people He created and loved so deeply turned to the things of the world, to other gods, to their own selfish desires. (Things haven't really changed that much, have they?) Even when I began wanting to live my life for God, it really wasn't as much about living for Him as it was about wanting what God would give me. I loved God, but I was still very self-centered. The thing that excited me the most about God was what I was going to get out of it. The scriptures I loved to read over and over again were the ones that promised things I would get. And I don't think I paid much attention to what I was supposed to give: nothing short of everything.<br />
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So now I'm 51 years old and finally I feel my perspective is changing. I find that I care less and less and less about anything in this world. I don't care what car I drive. I don't care if I have a lot of money. I don't care about status. My heart's desire... the thing I really want... is to hear His voice. I want to know that I'm doing what He wants me to be doing. I want to know that I'm making an impact in the lives of others. I want my focus to be on the things that are important to Him. And I want them to become the things that are important to me.<br />
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And so the past couple of years, I've been drawn to the scriptures that simply speak of His power and His glory and how worthy He is to be served. I'm drawn to scripture that talks about laying our lives down for Him, giving it all, holding nothing back. I finally understand it's not about Him doing what I want. It's about me doing what He wants.<br />
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Finally. Finally. Even though I'm somewhat of an old woman now, I finally get it. My perspective has finally changed.<br />
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This life is not about me. It's about Him.<br />
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<br />Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-67946334332336468882012-02-10T08:55:00.000-08:002012-02-10T09:08:00.355-08:00Do we really understand?I've been reading in Exodus. In the past, as I read through all the animal sacrifices and pouring of blood that had to go on before anyone could stand in God's presence, I immediately thought, "I am SO glad we don't have to do that anymore!" But yesterday was different. Yesterday I thought, "What an understanding they must have had about God's holiness."<br />
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We are so far removed from all of that, I think sometimes we take it for granted. Can you imagine people going through all of this process for years and years and years.... then the news that Jesus made the ultimate sacrifice. A greater sacrifice than all these animals. A sacrifice for <i>all time</i>. And now they were free. They were free to step into His presence. No more sacrifices for atonement. No more going through priests. They were free to approach God.<br />
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I'm guessing they really understood the magnitude of Jesus's sacrifice. They understood how huge that really was. They had never had this freedom to approach the Father before. And I'll bet they approached Him with the most humble of hearts. And grateful. Can you imagine how grateful they must have been?<br />
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Sometimes I wonder if we get it. On Sunday mornings when we gather corporately to worship... do we understand the magnitude of what we are able to do? Do we humbly come before Him with grateful hearts that we are able to stand in His Presence? As we begin to worship, are we swept away by His goodness? His love? His undeserved mercy?<br />
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Or are our minds wandering to places we'd rather be? Do we say, "Stand by, God... I don't like this song. But I'll catch you on the next one." Are we distracted, emotionally unattached? Are we thinking about ourselves.... or Him?<br />
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People used to have to go through a process unimaginable to us to be in His presence. But they did it. Because they desired Him that much. Now we can walk right into His presence. But don't think for a second it's because He's lowered His standards. If anything He raised them. No longer are animal sacrifices sufficient. It's only the blood of Christ. He gave Himself. He went through the pain, the humiliation, the torture. All so we could draw near to Him. He is still every bit as Holy as He has always been, and it's still every bit as big of a deal to be in His presence.<br />
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We've never had to experience the painstaking processes of animal sacrifice that those early people had to go through. And neither they nor we had to experience the excruciatingly painful process of sacrifice that Jesus went through. He did it for us. He did it for all of us. He made a way for us to stand in the very presence of The Most Holy God. God is every bit as Holy as He has always been. And Jesus paid a price that is far greater than anything we can imagine for us to approach Him.<br />
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Take time to really think about it. <i>How can I stand before a God who is so Holy?</i> Let the magnitude of what we're able to do really sink in.<br />
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<i>With all creation I sing, "Praise to the King of Kings". You are my everything. And I WILL adore You.</i>Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-16241851521657454642012-01-09T07:54:00.000-08:002012-01-09T07:54:01.687-08:00Dying to SelfAs is often the case, the way things work in God's kingdom are quite contrary to how things work in the world.<div><br />
</div><div>Dying to self.... it doesn't sound as if it could possibly be a good thing. It sounds as if you have to cease to exist... or at the very least have a miserable existence because, frankly, you don't get to matter anymore. </div><div><br />
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</div><div>In the realm of the Spirit, dying to self is the very path to real life. If you find yourself in a place where you are miserable, maybe feeling hurt all the time, maybe feeling like you don't matter... chances are you haven't learned of the freedom that comes from dying to self. </div><div><br />
</div><div>We all have dreams, desires, hopes for our lives. But I have this theory that it's really not about the dream itself... it's about how we think we will FEEL after the dream comes true. Everything we hope for, everything we desire... it's all tied to the belief that if we get what we are wanting we will feel happy, satisfied, completely content with life. It's that feeling we are really longing for. We want to FEEL better.</div><div><br />
</div><div>But the truth is, as long as we are focused on ourselves and what we want, we can never truly be happy. God created us to love and trust Him. And because we love and trust Him, we LET GO of ourselves and spend our lives loving and helping others. If we really, truly love and trust God, we can tell Him, "These are the things I really feel like I want in my life. But I know I am only working with part of the information, and You are working with ALL of the information. I know and understand that you know me better than I even know myself. So I want to lay these dreams at your feet and trust you to lead me on the right path. I want to live out your will for my life, whether it's easy or hard. I want to live the life YOU want me to live."</div><div><br />
</div><div>The big question in all of this is <i>do we really believe we can trust Him with our lives</i>? It's easy to say yes. It's much harder to believe it... and to live it. Is it possible that deep down we have a gnawing feeling that he doesn't care about us as much as we do? </div><div><br />
</div><div>Again, nothing could be farther from the truth. He knows us. He loves us. We can trust Him with our lives. There is no better place we could possibly be. There is such a peace that comes from knowing and trusting He will lead us down the path He has for us. And as we travel that path with Him, He will use absolutely everything that comes our way, both good and bad, to help us grow and mature and be closer to Him than we were before. We can relax... and live.</div><div><br />
</div><div>And once we know our lives are secure in Him, we find we no longer have to worry about finding happiness for ourselves. The pressure is gone. We are <i>free</i> to focus on others, helping them to succeed, putting their needs ahead of our own.</div><div><br />
</div><div>If you have never really gotten to the place before where you were able to lay down all your hopes & dreams, as well as your pain and suffering... I highly encourage you to take the step. It's such a freeing experience. A good test of where you are at? Are you miserable? worried? hurt? anxious? Chances are, your focus is on yourself. Turn your focus to Him and lay it all down. Choose to trust Him with your future. Choose to believe He knows what He is doing and let go. Determine in your heart that it no longer matters what you want. It only matters what He wants. Commit yourself to living the life He wants you to live. It's what Christianity is all about.</div><div><br />
</div><div>And one day, you're going to sit down after a long day and think, "Hey... when did I get so happy?"</div>Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-77944324944420426412011-11-26T14:13:00.000-08:002011-11-26T14:13:16.465-08:00What does it take to shake my faith these days?I am really fortunate in that I have felt tremendously close to and in-touch with God these past few months. I feel like He has been revealing amazing things to me in the area of fully trusting Him. I feel like He has been drawing me closer and closer to Him. And I feel like I am more aware of His Spirit than ever before. It has been a really awesome time of growth for me and I feel stronger in my faith than ever before.<br />
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So what does it take to shake that faith? Not as much as you may think.<br />
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I've told the roof story... $17,000+ later, we walked through that trial with our faith intact. And we've had a couple of similar big events (nothing to do with $, but still requiring great faith) that He led us in trusting Him through from start to finish. Amazing stories of His faithfulness that we will never forget. Those experiences will affect our lives forever.<br />
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But today? Today I'm dealing with things that really shake my faith. Broken Christmas decorations (why don't we take the time to pack them better??), lost Christmas stockings (that we just bought 3 weeks ago... who loses stuff that fast??), dog poo on the floor (Thanks, Mumford.), a few unkind words spoken to me, and thus a whole attitude of, "I CAN'T TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!!!"<br />
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I could feel myself getting more and more upset on the inside as the incidents continued to pile one on top of another, so I retreated to my room to try to stop the madness, maybe gain some perspective. And as I sat here, feeling like my very world was crumbling around me... perspective is exactly what I gained.<br />
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I could believe that God was on His throne and fully in control when faced with how we were going to pay for a $17,000 roof, but when I lost our Christmas stockings (total value... $12 plus tax) then suddenly He's fallen off His throne and Satan is running rampant in my life??!! The Christmas decorations can be glued... or even thrown out. It will not change the meaning of what Jesus has done for me. There will be times unkind words are spoken, both to me and unfortunately by me, for as long as I live on this earth. And I will have to work through the relationships in order to make them stronger rather than letting them be destroyed. It's what He's called us to do, and it actually helps us grow every time we work through one of those situations. Pretty sure He's still on His throne for all of that.<br />
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As I sat here pondering all of this it made me wonder how all this little stuff can wreak such havoc in my life. Will there be a certain age I hit when I can face one little thing after another all the day long with a smile, knowing that none of it really changes our quality of life? And, more importantly, none of it affects how close we are to God. Is there a certain level of faith I will reach when I will not only be able to trust Him to get our family through a devastating separation in which we are stuck in two different countries, but I will ALSO be able to trust Him to get us through the devastation of broken Christmas ornaments? It was sad for me to even type that question. Sad that I let this little stuff take such a big place in my life.<br />
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So, I know it's not time for New Year's Resolutions, but it's the season we celebrate the greatest miracle of all time, so I'm going to take the opportunity to publicly repent and trust God to help me walk a different road going forward. I want to be <i>quick</i> to stop and re-evaluate when I sense I am losing my joy. I want to always be mindful that I walk closely with Him, that He is powerful, loving, and kind, and that He is <i>always paying attention</i>. I want to be confident that I can take every situation to Him and He will listen, and guide me, and help me to grow through it. Yes, even if we lose our Christmas stockings that are only three weeks old.<br />
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What a woman of faith I will be.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-39152331962565198782011-09-18T18:04:00.000-07:002011-09-18T18:04:37.808-07:00What Does God Think About _______?? (fill in the blank)I have found over the years that a lot of people try to understand the Christian faith by asking Christians where they stand on issues. This baffles me, because although the issues may indeed be an issue, they lean toward the non-issue side for me. Have I lost you yet?<br />
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Before you get the idea that I am an anything-goes, there's no such thing as right or wrong sort of person, let me explain. People ask me what I think God thinks about issues ranging from homosexuality to whether women should be allowed to speak in church. And believe me when I tell you there are a plethora of issues in between. I haven't always been as firm as I am now on my belief, but since this is my blog, I would like to use this platform to be very clear on where I stand now.<br />
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<u>If you want to know what God thinks about an issue, ask Him.</u><br />
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There are a lot of reasons for this strongly held belief of mine, the most obvious of which is..... I'm not God. I try to follow God with all of my heart. I study His word, and I love when He speaks directly to my heart. But it doesn't mean I know everything. He's got the corner on that market. My opinion is, for lack of a better description, a crap shoot. It may be true. It may be somewhat true, limited by my understanding up to that point. It may be true for me, but not for you. (If you read your Bible you will know this <i>can</i> happen) OR I could just be wrong. That sucks, but unfortunately, after 28 years of walking closely with God, I'm still wrong more than I'd like to admit in this blog. (But if you really want to know, ask my daughters... I think they keep a running tally)<br />
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Another important reason that I hold to that belief is that <i>even if I'm right about what God thinks</i>, it won't mean anything to you unless you have taken the time to talk to Him yourself. Why would His opinion even matter to you if you haven't really gotten know Him? How could anything He thinks impact your life if you don't realize how deeply He loves you? The reason I follow after Him, and the reason I care what He thinks, is that my relationship with Him has deeply impacted my life. He has changed everything for me. And for that, I will be eternally grateful.<br />
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So, some of my more zealous Christian friends may ask, "How are you supposed to be the light of the world if you don't speak up? We are supposed to be the light of the world!"<br />
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Well, setting aside the fact that I don't believe condemnation lights up the world, and also setting aside the fact that every Christian has a list of the things the Bible is clear on that still apply today as well as a list of things the Bible is clear on that do not still apply today (and those lists often don't match), <i>I have not said I won't speak up.</i> There are plenty of things I will speak up about.<br />
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Do you want to know how deep and how amazing God's love for you is? I may not be able to express it fully, but there's nothing I'd love more than to try! I have stories, lots of wonderful stories, of ways He has touched my life. I can tell you how he rescued me at times I didn't deserve to be rescued. I can tell you how He showed Himself to me at times when I desperately needed to know He was there. I can tell you how, at a time when I felt completely alone in this world, He showed me that I would never, ever, <i>ever</i> be alone... because He wasn't going anywhere.<br />
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Do you want to know the lengths God would go to just so you have a way to be near Him? I can tell you about that. Do you want to know about how He listens when you talk to Him? How He lays out a path that's just for you and then leads you along that path, patiently and lovingly bringing you back even when you get sidetracked? Do you want to know how He can take even the worst of situations and use it for your good? I have stories I can share about ALL of those things!<br />
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It's not that I don't believe you need answers to the other questions. You do. But you need to hear it from Him, and I strongly encourage you to ask Him. He is not hiding Himself from you. In fact, He is always pursuing you. He <i>loves</i> you. He wants you to come to Him and ask.<br />
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And the most important thing about Him answering your questions instead of me? When He answers you, it will change your life forever.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-61222141950070323902011-09-04T07:27:00.000-07:002011-09-04T15:03:37.020-07:00I should have known.For those of you who are on the edge of your seats wondering whatever became of our "roof" situation, here is an update.<br />
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Just to get everyone up to speed, about three months ago we received a letter from our insurance company informing us they were going to have someone do an "outdoor visual inspection" to see if there were any issues with our house that would cause them to decide to discontinue our coverage. My heart immediately began racing because I knew they would say we needed a new roof. We had checked into a new roof, but came to find out it was going to cost $10,000+ to redo it because of the height and because we have asbestos shingles.<br />
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Needless to say, that project quickly went to the back of line. That is, until we received the letter.<br />
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I didn't know what we would do. We HAVE to have insurance, but we didn't have $10,000 to fix our roof. So, we did what we always do..... we prayed. Now, some people pray for God to work everything out just the way they want it to work out. But we learned a LONG time ago, that's not the wisest prayer. We learned that we are working with very limited information, while He is working with the COMPLETE picture. We prayed for everything to work out the way HE wanted it to work out, and determined in our hearts to trust Him in whatever He decided.<br />
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You see, we have found over the course of our lives that God really does take care of us. He always has. Our lives are not always easy. Everything isn't always smooth-sailing. But He is always with us. He always takes care of us. And when we have to face tough things, He always sees us through and teaches us valuable lessons along the way. So when we prayed for everything to work out the way He wanted it to work out, we prayed knowing we were in the best hands we could possibly be in.<br />
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Well, the insurance guy came and guess what? He said we needed a new roof, and we got a letter saying they were going to discontinue our insurance. Our insurance agent called us and said if we could get it fixed before October (when our insurance expires) they would continue coverage. We decided to file an insurance claim and see what happened. We can't really see that high, but we hoped maybe they would find some hail damage and cover at least a portion of the roof. At this point, anything would help.<br />
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Yesterday some guys came out to make the decision. I found my heart being anxious, so Leonard and I sat down to pray again. We told God it didn't matter to us what kind of numbers this guy came back to us with because our trust was in Him, not them. We have entrusted our lives to Him, not the insurance company. And we decided a long time ago that no matter what this world throws at us, we would live with grateful hearts because we serve a God who deeply loves us, and that's all that really matters. What we have or don't have in this world is not the most important thing.<br />
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The guy finally knocked on the door and came in to discuss his findings. There was a little bit of hail damage on our roof. But because they no longer make asbestos shingles, the insurance company is going to cover replacing the entire roof. They will be paying for ALMOST ALL OF IT! More than we ever dared hope for or dream of. My heart was flooded with gratitude.<br />
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About 3 months ago, we were informed the insurance company would be doing a visual inspection and I thought it was terrible, terrible news. <i>But if they hadn't done that, we would have never discovered the insurance company would pay for replacing our roof. </i>We wouldn't have known, we wouldn't have asked. We would have just struggled to try to find a way to pay for it ourselves.<br />
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Once again, God drove the point home. We are working with so little information. What seems like the worst possible situation can be the beginning of the best thing that could happen. Trust. Trust that He knows what He is doing. Trust that He loves you. Trust that He will see you through, whether it's easy or it's hard. Certainly we are grateful the insurance company is covering our roof. But we know in our hearts if it had gone the other way, He still would have made a way. We still would have trusted Him to see us through, because that's what He does. He is a kind and loving and merciful God.<br />
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And He makes it so easy to live with a grateful heart.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-23763496395940952692011-08-11T14:54:00.000-07:002011-08-11T14:54:07.918-07:00Putting this world in its placeIt often feels like this world has a lot more control over me than I would like it to. Of course, it will always have <i>some</i> measure of control, i.e. I have to work, pay taxes, etc. But it should NOT have the power to control how I feel and who I am on the inside. Even with paying taxes... I have to do it, but I don't have to lose my joy over it.<br />
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There are so many different things trying to suck me in, what with all the political stuff that's going on, the every day financial stuff, the lure of "things" I think I want.... the Bible calls it the "cares of this world".<br />
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I love the moments of clarity...when I realize on such a deep level what is really important. It's almost like I'm swept back into the garden of Eden, walking and talking with God. Just me and him.....<br />
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<i>Mark 4:19 But all too quickly the message is crowded out by the worries of this life, the lure of wealth, and the desire for other things....</i><br />
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When He created the world, life was so simple. A great deal of what we worry about these days didn't even exist. We created it, and WE decided it was important. But the Bible tells us what the world honors is not the same as what God honors. And I find myself being drawn back to God over and over again, longing to dwell on the things HE deems important, and to free myself from this hold the world has on me.<br />
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<i>Colossians 3:2 Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth.</i><br />
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<i>1 Corinthians 1:20 So where does this leave the philosophers, the scholars, and the world's brilliant debaters? God has made the wisdom of this world look foolish.</i><br />
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<i>1 John 2:15-16 Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world you do not have the love of the Father in you. For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions. Those are not from the Father, but are from this world</i>. <br />
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I long to live my life fully aware of the presence of God. Not sometimes aware....FULLY aware. I long to be so close to him that hearing the news that our roof needs to be replaced and it's going to cost $10,000 doesn't throw me for a loop. I want my joy to remain intact, because the world doesn't have access to my joy. The stuff that happens in the world does not need to affect what goes on on the inside of me. Will the roof still need to be replaced? Maybe so, maybe not. But we will get through it. We ALWAYS do. He has ALWAYS made a way for us. Why would he stop now? We have vowed to trust Him with our lives. There was no disclaimer that we would trust Him with everything except the roof.<br />
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<i>Matthew 6:33 Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need.</i><br />
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We will have everything we need. And we will get through everything the world throws at us. It may not be easy, but one thing I know for sure .... God will remain near us, no matter what. He will teach us important things along the way that have to do with our character, our trust in Him, our love for others.... the things He deems important. <i></i><br />
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Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-21558883580742927662011-07-26T07:41:00.000-07:002011-07-26T07:45:20.968-07:00Jumping on BandwagonsI have always had an aversion to jumping on bandwagons. Sometimes to a fault, because I think it's entirely possible that even if there was something I actually <i>wanted</i> to be a part of, I might not simply because I don't want to jump on any bandwagons. I think in the Christian world the word bandwagon may be synonymous with 'movement'. At least for the purpose of this posting it is.<br />
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There have been three movements/bandwagons that I'm aware of since I became a Christian in 1983. There have probably been more, but these are the three I was affected by, so they are the three I want to cover.<br />
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First, we got in on the tail end of the "Faith" movement. In a nutshell, this was a movement that believed if you didn't get what you wanted, it's because you lacked faith. Maybe there were some "sub-movements" incorporated into this....name it/claim it, healing, etc.... but they all could really come under the heading of the faith movement.<br />
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The second movement I was exposed to was the "Prophetic/Apostolic" movement. This was the movement that believed you should do whatever the Prophets and Apostles told you to because they were the ones with a direct line to God.<br />
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And the latest movement, at least from what I've been reading on the internet, is the "Grace" movement. This movement teaches that since everything was taken care of by Jesus on the cross, there's really nothing else we need to concern ourselves with. We can "coast" into eternity, if you will.<br />
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The jury is still out on what I think about Rick Warren. Sometimes I think he is really wise, and other times I think he's gotten a little too caught up in himself. Truth is, I can't really say because I don't know the man. But there was one thing he said on Twitter that I agree with wholeheartedly. He said that most heresy in the church results from focusing on one Bible truth to the exclusion of all the others. I think that is true of all the movements referenced above.<br />
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There are four things that I believe these movements have in common.<br />
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1. They are all TRUE. But as stated above, they are true to the exclusion of many other truths. We need to look at the whole package.<br />
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2. They focus on us instead of God. They are all essentially about what we get out of this thing, not how Holy and Magnificent He is. The Faith movement is obvious.....I can have whatever I want if only I can muster up enough faith. The Prophetic/Apostolic was a little more subtle. We convinced ourselves it was out of sheer love for God that we wanted to hear prophecies about how great we were going to be in the kingdom and what a difference we personally would make. And the Grace movement focuses on the fact that we don't have to do or be or strive for anything.<br />
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3. They all accuse you of being a second rate Christian if you don't join in. You are faithless if you don't join the faith movement. You don't really love God and probably aren't even really a Christian if you don't join the Prophetic/Apostolic movement. And you're legalistic if you don't join the Grace movement. They all have the same idea. If you don't join the group, you're a big FAIL.<br />
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4. They all take the focus off what is really important. And don't take my word for it.... take Jesus's word for it. What is really important? LOVING GOD AND LOVING EACH OTHER. Laying our lives down for the kingdom. Spurring others on, encouraging them. Living every day in total adoration for the one who created all things. If we are busy trying to get everyone to have more faith, to follow the latest prophecy, or to be sure they're not being legalistic, we are not exerting our energy giving praise to the One who deserves all praise. I want to spend my energy pouring my love out on Him and His people.<br />
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I believe God gives us revelation at the times we need it the most. What He is showing me right now is probably not the same thing He is showing you. But I guarantee, in His Kingdom it will all fit together beautifully. He shows each of us what He shows us for a reason....because it's the very thing He wants us to know. And I guess that's why I think there's just really no need for bandwagons.<br />
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I believe He has it under control.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-30469655202274094342011-05-24T08:34:00.000-07:002011-05-24T09:47:28.381-07:00The End TimesThere's been a lot of talk lately about the end times, and if nothing else it's got me to thinking.<br />
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May 21st came and went without incident, and I'll have to admit that's what I was expecting. My reasoning? The verse in the Bible where Jesus says no man knows the day or the hour. <br />
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Today I heard the newly predicted date is October 21st. My first thought was, "Here we go again." But then it occurred to me.... it has to happen eventually. Anyone who believes in the Bible knows that the end times will come, we just don't know when. And this morning it even occurred to me that maybe God WOULD tell someone when it's going to be. Maybe when Jesus was speaking, he simply meant that at that time no one knew yet. Wouldn't be the first time we've totally misinterpreted what he said. (People were pretty off about how the whole Messiah thing would play out.) I don't necessarily believe that this guy knows the world is going to end on October 21st. But I also don't believe that I <em>know for certain</em> that it won't.<br />
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Today I watched this video someone shot while taking cover in Joplin, MO as a tornado tore apart the building around them. It made a huge impact on me.<br />
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The picture isn't very good, but listening to the people as the tornado ripped through brought tears to my eyes. And that's when it hit me.<br />
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The end times come every single day. Some people are expecting it and some aren't, but life in this world ends for them just the same. Hurricanes, tsunamis, earthquakes, tornadoes. Getting hit by a bus when you cross the street. End times.<br />
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What difference does it make if the end times come because Jesus has returned, or if people face their end times because of a natural disaster? Should the way we are living be any different, whether Jesus is returning soon or not? <br />
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I want to live my life every day in gratitude for what God has done for me, and I want to offer that hope to those who need it the most. <br />
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<em>October 21st will be the end times for somebody</em>, even if it's not everybody. I don't want to be a scoffer like the people outside Noah's ark. I want to live every day from now until October 21st and beyond offering hope to people who need hope, never forgetting to be grateful for what He's done.<br />
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Because then.... and this is the greatest hope of all...... then the end is just the beginning.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-73833071792601760412011-05-10T10:31:00.000-07:002011-05-10T10:31:44.871-07:00It's all that matters...Sometimes I feel the pressure more than others.<br />
Deadlines, commitments, goals, five-year-plans.<br />
Finances, obligations, responsibility.<br />
It all meshes together, in part defining who I am.<br />
How do I handle these things? <br />
Showing integrity without being consumed.<br />
Being what I need to be without making it who I am.<br />
It all matters. <br />
In one way or another, it matters.<br />
But some of it only in the broadest sense.<br />
Help me keep perspective.<br />
Help me remember the one thing that matters more than anything else.<br />
That in all these things, <br />
no matter how big or how small, <br />
no matter how worldly or how spiritual,<br />
help me to remember....<br />
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All that really matters to me<br />
is that my life glorifies You.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-13283597756869226442011-04-20T09:24:00.000-07:002011-04-20T09:24:30.385-07:00I've made the decision in advanceHave you ever been going merrily along in your life when all of a sudden WHAM! something blindsides you? Suddenly everything inside of you sinks, you feel lost, alone, maybe afraid, and all you can think is, "What am I going to do?"<br />
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I've been there. In fact, something tried to blindside me yesterday. I say "tried" because it was only partially successful. You see, I've learned something in all these years of life I've lived. We can decide <em>ahead of time</em> that we are just going to trust God to walk us through every obstacle we face.<br />
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I'll admit, it knocked the wind out of my sail for a couple of hours. In my mind I was thinking, "God, what are we going to do...help us know what to do." But then I remembered that I already knew exactly what to do. I would trust Him. I would trust Him that at the right moment, in the right time He would show us the steps to take. And I remembered that no matter what happens, He is always near us and we have nothing to fear.<br />
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I know that's not quite the same as deciding ahead of time to trust in Him, but I'm getting closer and closer to having that be a reality in my life. And once I know....once I <em>really</em> <em>know</em> ahead of time that my trust is in Him no matter what... the blind-siding loses its power over me.<br />
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And we get to go on with life knowing that no matter what, everything will be okay in the end. God is with us. He isn't going anywhere. And that's all we need.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-76377173637290136602011-02-28T09:27:00.000-08:002011-02-28T09:27:27.200-08:00The Post I've Been Waiting For....This is the post I've been waiting for. For NINE LONG MONTHS. Nine months of praying, hoping, crying, believing, growing.....<br />
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and HE'S BACK!!<br />
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My son-in-law, Aaron, finally returned to us on Friday night! It was quite an amazing reunion at the airport. <br />
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We had a welcome home party Saturday night at the church and it was GLORIOUS! We thanked God, we thanked the people who have stood with us through all of this, and we CELEBRATED!<br />
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Someday I'll share all the wonderful things God taught us all through this trial. But right now I'm going to just bask in the happiness of knowing the trial is behind us.<br />
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My family is together again. Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-54487412131135690202011-02-01T13:23:00.000-08:002011-02-01T13:32:35.719-08:00A lot has happened.....I have never had a problem expressing myself with the written word...... <br />
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Until the last few months.<br />
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A lot has been going on, both outwardly and inwardly. Usually when I am having intense feelings I immediately start writing, but this year has been different. I've been doing a lot of thinking, often lamenting. In many areas I've been adjusting my thinking. But I haven't done much writing, because for some reason that I can't begin to understand (because it's so totally not like me) it all feels stuck on the inside. <br />
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This has been a year when the tragedy of death seemed like it was going to incapacitate us, only to be followed by the elation of one wonderful birth after another. It's been a year of cancer, separation of family, pain, struggling. And at the very same time that a family was grieving so deeply over the death of their young daughter/wife/mother who collapsed on her treadmill only to die a few days later, we got the very best news we could possibly hope to get. Our family would soon be reunited. <br />
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We were celebrating our greatest joy....something we had been eagerly waiting months to hear.... at the very same time they were grieving the biggest loss they had ever had. And I think that's when it really hit me. This world will never make sense. We will continue taking turns celebrating and mourning and celebrating again. Terrible, terrible things will happen. But really wonderful things will happen, too. Over and over and over again. People in one part of the world are struggling with how to find something to feed their children so they don't die of starvation. Others are struggling with how to fit a flat-screen tv into their budget. It doesn't make sense.<br />
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And I find myself in unfamiliar territory. I don't know what to say. I feel this strong urge to live for something more meaningful. Leonard and I continue to feel it's getting harder and harder to live our comfortable little lives knowing there are so many people out there who are really suffering. I feel like there is some sort of awakening going on in the inside of me, and yet I don't know what I'm waking up to. <br />
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I like being able to end my writing with the point. The reason I wrote it. <br />
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But I don't know what to say.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-72375420533645958702011-01-05T10:37:00.000-08:002011-01-05T10:38:49.014-08:00My Hope is in You, LordWe used to sing a song that went like this:<br />
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<em>My life is in you, Lord</em><br />
<em>My strength is in you, Lord</em><br />
<em>My hope is in you, Lord</em><br />
<em>In you, it's in you.</em><br />
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I loved that song. I still do, actually. It's a wonderful reminder of how absolutely everything is wrapped up in Him. <br />
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Today I was thinking about this verse:<br />
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<em>Proverbs 13:12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, </em><em>but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life.</em><br />
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Hope deferred makes the heart sick. At first I thought I could really relate to that. I've had some pretty high hopes lately that I felt were quite "deferred". But it led to the question....<em>What had I put my hope in? If my hope is really in Him, is it possible for it to be deferred?</em><br />
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No doubt, there are things in this life we would like to see happen. Circumstances we'd like to see changed. Things that would make our lives so much easier. But we can never allow our hope to be in that circumstance. Our hope must remain in Him. <br />
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Can we believe that no matter what we see, He is in control and He knows exactly the right thing to do? <em>Can we really believe that?</em> Can we believe that if our hope is in Him, our dreams will be fulfilled beyond our wildest imaginations? Hope is a crucial part of our lives. It leads directly to that tree of life that is promised for dreams fulfilled. There is great anticipation and excitement that comes with hope. <br />
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And if we keep our hope in Him....our hope will never be deferred.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-8747099761281030882010-12-14T10:52:00.000-08:002010-12-14T10:52:26.009-08:00Name DroppingIt seems a little odd to me to be blogging today. It just seems I haven't had much to say lately. I've been in a season of listening and absorbing more than of sharing. But this morning I had a thought, and I wanted to put it out here.<br />
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It's fun to have "important" people notice us. Universally, the most important people are thought to be those with fame, power, or money. For instance, Denzel Washington is one of my favorite actors. If he were to stop by my house, give me a call, or even drop me a Christmas card this year, I guarantee you EVERYONE would hear about it. How cool would it be to be able to tell everyone Denzel and I were friends??!!!<br />
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It was at this point that I realized....we really don't understand how important God is. Maybe it's because we can't see Him or maybe it's because we sometimes feel like we have trouble hearing from Him. I don't know for sure why. But He is THE KING. He is the most powerful being that exists. He holds every answer to every question in the universe. And He owns ALL of it. <br />
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There is no one ANYWHERE more famous than He. And yet, for some reason it doesn't necessarily seem as big of a deal to us that we know Him personally. Most of us, if we're honest, would admit we might just get more excited if we met a movie star.<br />
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Why is it I don't go from person to person saying, "You know what?? GOD spoke to me today!!" "You'll never believe who I met PERSONALLY!!! Jesus!" <br />
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Would it mean more to me if Brad Pitt said to me, "If there is anything, EVER, that you need...please let me know. I will take care of it." Would that actually be more comforting than God's promise that HE will take care of everything I need?<br />
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What is real? What do we believe? Who do we trust? What do we value? The whole world is trying to blind us...to deceive us. God's place is not, and never will be, on the back burner. His is the most important relationship we will ever, ever have.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-21321956540232238812010-11-04T10:23:00.000-07:002010-11-04T10:38:26.631-07:00Illegal Immigration and the TitanicLast night as I was thinking about Illegal Immigration, it occurred to me, I think <em>everyone</em> is against Illegal Immigration. The difference is in what people want to do about it...do we make it easier for them to get here legally or do we keep them out? I think even the Illegal Immigrants are against Illegal Immigration. Having to sneak over here and hide, always fearing the day they get caught...it's certainly not an ideal way to live. But what are their options? After experiencing the poverty, corruption and danger in Mexico for a significant amount of time, I think I would find sneaking over here the lesser of two evils as well. <br />
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The go-to argument seems to be, "Well, they should wait their turn and come over legally." But do people realize the wait is often 20-25 years if you're coming from Mexico, <em>if they are approved at all</em>? If I were living in Mexico with no way to provide for my children and the wait was 25 years...I would equate that with an eternity. These people just want a chance at a better life. Should we deny them that chance just because it may threaten <em>our</em> comfortable lifestyles?<br />
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A few nights ago I was watching the Titanic. Remember the end, where they helped all the rich people get on rafts and left all the poor people die? That was sad, but it wasn't the scene that <em>really</em> got to me. <br />
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It was the scene of the handful of rich people in the raft with plenty of room for more. They sat in the distance, safe in their raft, and watched as people were screaming and dying in the water. One person said there was no way to save them all and if they went back they would be pulled over by the multitude and they would all die. That was certainly a legitimate concern. <br />
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But if the alternative was sitting back to watch them all suffer and die just to save myself.... <br />
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I think I'd rather go down with the rest of them.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-61148081105075764652010-10-19T15:24:00.000-07:002010-10-20T08:48:30.862-07:00But it's not the most important thing....When we go through especially troubling times in this life, it's really quite easy to let ourselves become consumed by them. Even if we are praying a lot, we can find that most of our prayer time is spent asking, sometimes begging God to intervene in our situation. A lot of really terrible things happen in this world that can drive us to our knees, and the good news is <em>God really does care</em>. I know in our situation that not only does God care, but He has a plan and it's in motion. It is extremely important to me that our situation is resolved. But today, as I was on the elliptical listening to the Revelation song, I realized ... contrary to how I've been feeling lately, it's not the most important thing. As I worshipped God, singing the Revelation Song at the top of my lungs, the important thing is what began to consume me.<br />
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I felt surrounded by the sheer magnitude of God, His holiness, His glory. I felt the heavy weight I've been carrying for so long begin to lift. And I prayed a much different prayer.<br />
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Lord, our family belongs to You. Help us not to be consumed by the things that happen in this world. Don't let us be distracted; let our eyes remain fixed on you. Through every circumstance, no matter what's at stake, I pray that our lives would bring glory to You. I pray that we would <em>truly be a family that lives our lives full of faith and adoration for You</em>. No matter what happens in any situation we face in this world, we will praise you. Whether we burn in the fiery furnace or whether You deliver us, let us bring glory to your name.<br />
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And <em>that</em>.........that is the most important thing.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-76739823834492500922010-09-30T14:08:00.000-07:002010-10-01T06:54:02.165-07:00How do I spend my time?I've been thinking about time lately. I've heard people say through the years, "We are SO busy...we don't have any time for _______" (fill in the blank for what you are wishing you had time for.) As I've been thinking about it, however, I've decided that for the most part I think we MAKE time for what we <em>want</em> to make time for. Maybe our problem is more with the reasons we do the things we do.<br />
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Let me explain. The obvious example for me right now is Aaron. If every single one of my days was completely booked for the next two weeks and I got word today that Aaron was coming home tomorrow, you can bet things would get rearranged and I would be at that airport to see him when he lands. Furthermore, there would be a whole evening cleared to invite ALL our friends and family over for a HUGE celebration. Nothing would stop this from happening. It's very, very important to me. <em>We make time for what's important to us.</em><br />
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On the other hand, what if we are driven to get people's approval? To always "do the right thing" so people will think highly of us? What if we fill our days with meetings, volunteering, counseling those who are hurting, giving people rides to where they need to go, etc. etc. etc. Those are great things to do if that's what's in your heart, if you're <em><u>driven by love</u></em>. But if you're doing it merely because you think it makes you a better person, it becomes about you, not them. You ignore the things that you know are important to you so you can continue doing these tasks that you're convinced make you a super Christian.... and bitterness is soon to follow. You resent the people you're helping for taking up your time, and you resent all the other "Christians" who aren't doing as much as you are for everyone.<br />
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Or, what if your reason is money? Let's face it, we need money to live. But there are a couple of things I want you to think about. First, how many of us work at jobs we don't like simply because we <em>want more</em>? We want nicer houses, cooler stuff, better vacations. And to get those things, we have to work hours and hours and hours doing something we hate. Or, what if we <em>have</em> to work those hours just to meet our basic needs, but instead of focusing on all the opportunities God may have for us to minister, we focus on getting it over with and collecting our money. If we work, most of us see people every single day. What an opportunity to listen to the Spirit of God to see if there's a difference we can make in someone's life. If only we could get the focus off ourselves. <br />
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Now, that's kind of easy for me to say right now because I'm finally in a position where I LOVE my job. But I've been there. I've been in those jobs where I struggle to keep a healthy focus, where I spend my time praying that something better will happen for me, rather than looking outward to see how I can touch others. And there are definitely things I wish I would have handled differently. But even now...in the job I love... there are opportunities for me to make a difference in the lives of others, OR I can choose to focus on myself and my own needs. I can always make my day about me. But if I do, I'm not successful in my business and I'm not successful in my Christian life. <br />
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Lest we begin to think this is a post encouraging everyone to stop whatever you're doing, let me quickly move on to what my real encouragement is. If you're feeling your days are being taken from you, if you find your time is spent doing things you really don't want to be doing, <u>spend some much-needed alone time with the Holy Spirit.</u> Find somewhere quiet, where your time is His alone. Let Him help you discover your purpose, your method, your niche so to speak. Let Him ignite the passion for whatever He created you for. He created you with a very special personality to use with special gifts and talents. Take the time to ask Him what He wants you to do. And even ask Him what you can be doing right where you are. Commit yourself to resisting all the distractions Satan would use to lure you away, and let life become about Him again. <br />
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I trust you'll find it's amazing how enjoyable time becomes.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-60448258602506954022010-09-14T11:43:00.000-07:002010-09-14T12:05:17.118-07:00Raise your hand if you enjoy the waiting....We are waiting. Sometimes patiently and sometimes not so much....but waiting, nonetheless. <br />
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I would like to just put it out there right up front...<em> I hate waiting</em>. But in thinking back to some scriptural accounts of this particular issue, I discovered I'm in pretty good company. Even Abraham, who received top billing as a man of faith, didn't always shine in this area. Waiting is hard. It gives you too much time to question, too much time to wonder if you <em>really</em> heard from God. <em>And too much time to try to figure out a workable solution on your own.</em><br />
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But thank God. He doesn't let go of us. He continues to comfort. He continues to build, to be faithful, to reveal. Through this process, as I surrendered my heart to His loving hands, I have found a deeper faith. I have discovered at a whole new level what it is to hope in things unseen. And I have had profound revelation of how huge and capable He really is.... capable of taking care of everything in the universe no matter how large or how small. <br />
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Most importantly of all, and the glue that really holds it all together for me, He has reminded me of His love. The deep, intimate, unconditional love. <br />
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I placed a link below to a song that has lifted my spirits many times as I wait. I still hate waiting. But I love and appreciate so much the things I gain from it. While I'm waiting, I will worship. <br />
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFwZ7Ekg080">While I'm Waiting....</a>Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-68844544022825927622010-09-07T08:53:00.000-07:002010-09-07T09:00:53.601-07:00Slaves obey your masters.....<em>I Peter 2:18 You who are slaves must accept the authority of your masters with all respect.* Do what they tell you—not only if they are kind and reasonable, but even if they are cruel.</em><br />
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Has this particular passage ever bothered anyone else? Is Peter saying God <em>condones</em> slavery??? Certainly that can't be right.... <br />
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I have always been aware that a lot of things happen in the world that aren't right. And as I have seen my daughter, son-in-law, and their small children go through this horrible time of separation because of politics.... it's become just one more injustice added to my list. I see <em>every day</em> the effect it has on my daughter, trying to take care of two small children while she is due to deliver a third in just two short weeks. And she does it all the while trying to deal with the pain of having her husband ripped away from her. It's a lot to deal with. But yesterday, she unknowingly said something that ministered deeply to me. She had been reading a book on slavery here in the U.S., and all that those people suffered. She said, "Even if Aaron and I don't get to be together for another year, as painful as that would be, it wouldn't be as bad as what they had to go through." Now, I'm never one for comparing pain. Pain is pain, and I think you get into trouble when you try to measure one person's suffering with another's. But she was right. The things those people suffered were terrible...and it lasted a long, long time. <br />
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Which brings me back to the verse. Slaves are instructed to obey their masters. That always bothered me. I always felt it should read, "Masters, free those slaves! You have no right to hold another man captive!" Why would God condone slavery? <br />
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However, after my conversation with Rachel, something dawned on me that I have never considered before. What if this is really one of the most powerful, life-changing verses in the entire Bible? In fact, that's exactly what it was for me at that moment. It was no longer a verse about slavery. It was about integrity. <br />
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"No matter what happens to you...no matter where you find yourself in life....no matter how unfair or unjust it may be, still choose to do the right thing. Carry yourself with honor." <br />
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What is happening to Rachel and Aaron, and especially to their children right now, seems very unjust. You don't rip families apart to prove a point. You don't deprive children of their father and a wife of her husband <em>on purpose</em>. You don't deny a loving husband and father the opportunity to provide for his family. And you don't force a mother to give birth to her child without her husband by her side, just because of a hot political climate. <br />
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But through it all, Rachel and Aaron have continued to do the right thing. They have continued to follow the rules. They have held their heads high and walked in integrity. <br />
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Because they know. They know who <em>really</em> holds their future in His hands.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-73001601574157825742010-08-26T13:34:00.000-07:002010-08-26T13:34:41.764-07:00Keeping the FaithGod is amazing. Even in the midst of many troubles, He continues to work. He continues to be faithful, to inspire, to comfort, to lead. My son-in-law is sitting in Mexico right now, waiting for the okay to come back to his wife and children who are oh-so-eagerly awaiting his return. Nothing is easy about this on either side. In fact, it's so mentally, emotionally, and physically draining, it could cause you to wonder if doing the "right thing" is all it's cracked up to be.<br />
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But I look at my daughter, and I listen to my son-in-law, as they both proclaim their faith and trust in God to see them through. Even through the tears, even through the pain, they continue to trust Him. Even after having their hopes crushed more than once, they continue to trust Him.<br />
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And I know it's God Himself who has drawn near to them and given them this gift. Only He can have this effect on people. <em>No matter how bad it gets, I'm here. And I'm never going to let you go.</em><br />
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He's the only one who could make them this confident. Thank you, Lord, for your everlasting love.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-34823849009281255122010-08-20T11:03:00.000-07:002010-08-20T11:03:45.363-07:00Does anyone REALLY know God anymore?Today I was thinking about all the many stories in the Bible of men who could say <em>this is what God is going to do</em>, then sure enough that's exactly what He did. They really knew Him. They really understood what it was He wanted to do. Is there anyone that can really do that now? I can't think of anyone. <br />
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We hope. We pray and we hope. We think we have a pretty good understanding of what He <em>should</em> want to do, based on what we've learned about Him in the Bible. But to stand up and say, <em>this is what God is going to do so prepare for it</em>. We're pretty hit and miss. <br />
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I think I know God. I feel like I know His heart. There have been times when I felt that I've really heard His voice. Sometimes I was right, sometimes I was wrong. Or maybe I was never right....maybe it's just the old adage of even a blind squirrel finds an acorn once in awhile. <br />
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Right now I'm just suffering in the midst of great disappointment. I really thought I knew what God wanted. I really thought I knew what He would do. And I was wrong. So wrong. I still have faith in Him. I know He knows what He is doing and everything will be okay. I just don't know if I'll ever believe again that I really know Him. Or that I can even hear His voice.<br />
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<em>Lord, show me what's true. Show me what to believe and I'll believe it. Reveal Yourself to me. </em><br />
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<em>Because I really, really need to see who you are.</em>Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-21594948975505971452010-06-30T09:10:00.000-07:002010-06-30T09:25:55.634-07:00In thinking about prayer....Yesterday I had all these questions about prayer, so on the way home several different situations from the Bible came to mind. Top of the list was Job. <br />
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Deep inside we <em>all</em> hope we don't have to be Job. Job prayed, but ultimately it all just played out the way it was going to anyway. Job's situation wasn't resolved right away, but does that mean Job's prayers were of no effect? I don't think so. In this case I believe Job's prayers strengthened his relationship with God. He was able to be honest with Him and to open his heart to Him. And that could be the very reason that in the end, everything turned out so well. Job continued to honor God through the whole ordeal. Without prayer, he may not have been able to do that. <br />
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Then there was the passionate prayer of King David for the life of his baby. He cried out to God, fasting and praying for the life of his son. On the seventh day, his son died anyway. David's reaction?<br />
<em>Then David got up from the ground, washed himself, put on lotions, and changed his clothes. He went to the Tabernacle and worshiped the LORD. After that, he returned to the palace and was served food and ate.</em><br />
He had hopes that God would have mercy on him and let his son live. God didn't do what he wanted him to do, but he got up and worshipped God anyway. <br />
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The next incident that came to mind is in Daniel chapter 10: <br />
<em>12 Then he said, "Don't be afraid, Daniel. Since the first day you began to pray for understanding and to humble yourself before your God, your request has been heard in heaven. I have come in answer to your prayer.13 But for twenty-one days the spirit prince of the kingdom of Persia blocked my way. Then Michael, one of the archangels, came to help me, and I left him there with the spirit prince of the kingdom of Persia.14 Now I am here to explain what will happen to your people in the future, for this vision concerns a time yet to come."</em> <br />
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In this case, it sounds as if some spiritual warfare had to take place in order to answer the prayer. It said Daniel's prayer was heard in heaven on the FIRST DAY he prayed, but for 3 weeks the spirit prince of the kingdom of Persia blocked the messenger (thought by some to be Gabriel). Michael, who the messenger refers to as Daniel's prince, is apparently the only one who helps Gabriel fight this spirit prince of Persia. What's up with that? Interestingly, it says when he was done talking to Daniel, Gabriel needed to go back and continue this fight. So, in this case it would seem the answer was delayed only because of spiritual resistance. Did Daniel's prayers help break through this resistance? It doesn't say...it only explains the delay. But it does assure us he was heard in heaven right away, and something was in motion.<br />
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Another interesting thing that came to mind was when the apostles tried to cast the demons out of a man but couldn't do it. Jesus said that type of thing required fasting and praying. Then he proceeded to heal the guy. Now people (including me) often think you should fast and pray for the thing you are wanting to see happen. But is this really what Jesus meant? Had he been fasting and praying for this particular man to be delivered? I don't think so. I don't think the focus of our fasting and praying is to be the <em>results</em> we are looking for. It seems to me the key is deepening your relationship with God. The more you fast and pray, the more in tune you will be. And apparently the more powerful your prayers will be when the need arises.<br />
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In contrast to the above, there are many, many examples of prayers being answered immediately. Healings, deliverances, resurrections. You would think I'd be just as confused as I was yesterday on what the purpose of prayer really is.<br />
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But today I'm at peace. Clearly, like so many other things in the realm of God's kingdom, prayer has many purposes. The most important of these purposes is it keeps us in tune with God. So I will continue praying. I will continue worshipping and adoring, I will continue crying out for our needs. And if the answer doesn't come right away, still I remain confident that something good is in motion.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-89118053109036991502010-06-28T07:44:00.000-07:002010-06-28T07:48:17.333-07:00Holding out for what God wants to do....If there is one thing I've learned over the past few weeks, it's that my ways most definitely are NOT God's ways. I have prayed and prayed for things to turn out just the way I want them to. And if God really loves me, if God really cares, He'll do what I want, right? That's the attitude we often have, whether we like to admit it or not. God proves His love to us by answering our prayers the way we want them answered. <br />
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Now, I'm still on the path of discovering what the power of prayer really is, and it's a journey that's far from over. As I've mentioned in the past, it's easy for me to believe God loves us and He knows what He is doing. It's easy for me to just trust that His decisions are right. But where does prayer come into that? Does He always just do what's best for us? Or does He sometimes do what we want, what we pray for, even if He knows that's not the best thing? Is that what we really WANT Him to do? Wouldn't we rather He do the <em>best</em> thing, since He has quite a bit more information than we do? Are there times when the best thing doesn't happen <em>unless</em> we pray? These are the questions I long to find answers for. <br />
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Meanwhile, my son-in-law is in Mexico. We love him with all our hearts. He came to the U.S. when he was 16 years old with the best of intentions and the most loving of hearts. He knew his mom couldn't provide for him and his five siblings. He tried the best he could to help in Mexico, but couldn't make enough money to help. So he left his home, his security, everything he knew to come to the U.S. He didn't understand the language or the culture. I think he had some understanding as to how dangerous it was to cross the border... as much understanding as a 16 year old boy has of danger. But he did it... out of love for his family. I am amazed at how incredibly brave he was at just 16 years old. <br />
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Since that time, he has been a hard worker. He married my daughter and worked hard to provide for her and their children. Since they have been together, we have always encouraged him to do the right thing. At the top of the list was going back to Mexico so he could come over legally. We did all the paperwork, everything they required to prove it would be an extreme hardship on my daughter if he were not to return to the U.S. The lawyer said there should be no problems...it was one of the strongest cases he had ever presented, and he's done a lot of them. But, he said, they can do whatever they want to do. <br />
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Aaron went to the American Consulate in Mexico, presented the hardship waiver, and they said we failed to prove it would be an extreme hardship on Rachel if he didn't return and we need to submit more evidence. Then they said they would give us another answer in A YEAR. I'm not sure what else we can submit. He is their sole source of income. They have never had to be on any assistance whatsoever, but now Rachel will be forced to apply for assistance for herself and their children. She is pregnant, due to deliver in September. It will be a huge emotional strain on her trying to raise three children all by herself, all while mourning the loss of her husband. It will be horrible for the children to live without their father. They are talking about ripping apart a family and they want to know why that would be a hardship. How hardened have we really become?<br />
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Rachel went down to Mexico to be with Aaron because they didn't want their family to be apart, and it should have taken only two months at the most for him to come back. Since their waiver was not approved, she thought maybe they could make it in Mexico. She said even if it were hard, the family needed to be together.<br />
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Tearfully, she is coming back this week. Aaron can't make enough money to provide for them there. He hasn't found a job yet and the most he could hope to make when he does is about 1000 pesos ($100) a week. Rachel has found that everything is as expensive (or more expensive) down there than it is here. They just can't make it. So they were forced to make the impossible, yet necessary, decision that she and the kids must come back without him. <br />
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We all have heavy hearts. He is our son now. We love him. He's not a nameless, faceless illegal immigrant. He is our son. He is the father of our grandchildren. We prayed, we fasted. The church prayed and fasted. But he is still in Mexico. <br />
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I'm sure God's hand is at work. I don't know what the plan is, but I know He will work it all for good. Our prayers weren't answered the way we wanted them to be, but I have enough years under my belt that I know when all looks lost, God comes shining through. <br />
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But at the same time, we are just sad. We miss him. We love him. <em>Lord, bring him home as soon as you can.</em> <br />
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And if there happens to be anyone out there who has more clout than we do, we'd appreciate any and all help. Oprah, are you listening?Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9206950042123045378.post-87554175880946180062010-06-01T08:14:00.000-07:002010-06-07T12:39:13.780-07:00Sometimes life will hurt....It's one of life's paradoxes, really. There are times in our lives that will be painful. The Bible assures us of that. And yet, we can be joyful in all things. <br />
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How is it possible to feel the depth of pain that I am feeling this week, yet at the same time feel this joy, this trust, this optimism that everything will be okay? It doesn't make sense... which is exactly why I believe it's God. <br />
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God has a way of taking things that make no sense whatsoever and building deep and lasting principals on them. (i.e. fisherman leading the church, first being last/last being first, finding everything you need by serving others instead of yourself, etc., etc.) My son-in-law, who I love as if he were my very own son, left for Mexico last week. My daughter and two grandchildren are leaving on Thursday. How long? It's yet to be determined. Hopefully no longer than 6-8 weeks. But it's not our call. Their fate is in the hands of the American Embassy in Juarez. Or so it would seem.<br />
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Our church has really banded together in this. There has been a call to pray and fast until Aaron, Rachel, and the kids are safely back in America. And not just our church... I have heard from other friends throughout the U.S. who have been praying...interceding...on their behalf. <br />
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Why did they have to send Aaron to Juarez? It's one of the most dangerous places he could possibly be right now with the drug wars that are going on. Someone was shot yesterday just 5 blocks from where he is staying. <br />
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But the church is praying. The saints are crying out for His protection, His provision. He is a kind and loving God who hears the cries of His people. And even though we won't be able to get to our children to offer our protection, He will be with them. And His protection is all they need. <br />
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You see, their fate is not in the hands of the American Embassy in Juarez. Their fate is most certainly in the hands of our God.Tracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03113587186488185567noreply@blogger.com1